Even if they are genuinely “Confused,” just say so!

They won’t do it BD.

And I’ve seen lives shattered, 2 lives actually lost, because someone lied to them or was “confused” about their sexuality!

People confused and people lying are two different things though. If somebody is confused they might not be confident yet to be honest about their feeling. Lying is a whole other thing and is just wrong no matter if it is about sex or whatever.

I’ve seen too many good people hurt by confused and deceptive people BD.

My main issue is they lie about their sexuality all the time!

If they would just be Honest about who and what they are I wouldn’t have such a bad feeling about them.

Another good point. I think people know what they like early on. But what they will act on or not probably changes through life. Are they gay because they like same sex but never did anything, or gay because they did have sex with the same sex. Who decides that is my point.

And please don’t get me wrong! Many, if not most, Straight people who are truly “straight” have lived like sex depraved heathens since darn near the beginning of time. The same can be said of gay people who are truly “Gay.”

But Bisexuals, and now Transgender folk, imo, take all that madness to an even lower level. They’re all over the map with their bullsh*t!